Why is it so hard?...
Earlier, I've read one of my friend's blog, she have just opened up her recent break up with her boyfriend. I felt sorry for her. I felt like I was also hurt, and wanted to cry. Why am I feeling what they're feeling? Is it because we have the same gender? I don't think that other girls also feel the same thing as I do. Why is it so hard for us girls to get hurt? (as if I was hurt before... ha! ha!) Sometimes, girls are having a hard time to move on. It takes months...and sometimes year(s) for them to cope up with an emotional distress.
I've never been into a serious relationships before. But i've seen some of my girlfriends who are getting hurt or being ended up with a broken heart. I really care a lot, especially for those people who are broken hearted. I don't want to see them wasting their time, as well as their life weeping for the wrong person. As a friend I've tried to help them out to move on. Bathe them with prayers as well as helping them to realize that their family and friends are always there.
They felt like they've moved on, sometimes there are things that reminds them, hurt comes again and again. Probably because, there are no such forgiveness from both parties. It's really hard to forgive, but once we forgive the person who have caused us to get hurt. A sudden comfort comes in, we cannot rely on our own strength. But believe me, and to the rest of the girls who have hurt before, whose reading this blog right now. God can only mend our broken heart, we ourselves can also find comfort in His hands. He will also wipe those tears that kept flowing from our eyes as well as in our hearts...
Now...Is it really hard?...
